It can be hard for the haters and the entrepreneurs/dreamers/doers to understand each other, so I thought it might be a good idea to help translate……
It is all his/her fault! = Blaming someone else for whatever it is they have done/are doing, helps them to cope with their own bad decisions/lot in life.
I saw/heard (something negative) about you/your business/your life, and I (something negative). What do you have to say about it? = They are being nosey and want you to tell them something to feed their nosey desire.
He/she has a narcissistic personality disorder. = They need to believe you have a narcissistic personality disorder because it helps them to cope with their own bad decisions/lot in life.
You are guilty of XY and Z! = They are accusing you of doing something to hurt your reputation/business short-term, but will not be able to provide any verifiable evidence to corroborate their allegation long-term.
If you don’t ______________, I am going to _________________. = An attempt to try to get something from you or to get you to do something they want you to do.
I know what we agreed to, but_______________________. = An attempt to try to get something from you or to get you to do something they want you to do.
I don’t care if you are right/what the rules say/what the law is, I _____________________. = An attempt to try to get something from you or to get you to do something they want you to do.
He/she publishes a blog on the internet that I don’t like and morally disagree with. = Utilizing your creative talents while exercising your right to freedom of speech.
He/she must do what I want them to do because I know best. = A control freak who instead of focusing on their own life, they spend their time focusing on you.
He/she has an overactive imagination. = You think differently/outside the box.
He/she doesn’t leave their house to go to work in the morning and come home in the evening like everyone else. They must be a weirdo and/or up to something no good. = They are a blogger, a YouTuber, a gamer, etc.
I feel __________________________. = Whatever they said after “I feel” is likely to be emotionally charged and illogical.
“Haters, go right on ahead and keep underestimating me. Your negative thoughts, feelings and opinions, you can have them all to yourself.” Michael “MJ The Terrible” Johnson – Founder and Owner – Masters of Money, LLC.
Hater To Entrepreneur Translations Volume #3 – https://www.therealmjtheterrible.com/hater-to-entrepreneur-translations-volume-3/